feeling lucky

Today, I did all the dishes I haven't done for about a week.

I thought about finishing college.

Because I am done. I am done with college. Finished.

I've spent a lot of time writing you, trying to summarize and wring some moral or theme that accurately represents what the past four years meant, or are supposed to mean.

Here is what happened that I could not have predicted four years ago:

I grew up.

Child to sort-of-adult.

(four years ago)

Just like that.

I cried a lot, and everyone else cried a lot, and it was good and bad, but mostly it was interesting.

And now this particular thing is mostly over.

Two weekends from now, I walk towards a diploma with a tassel on my head.

And then the real stuff, I am told, begins.

Also, I've wanted to tell you, that I did what I've been so long promising to do: I wrote a cookbook.

It's called

Good in the Kitchen: A Memoir about Food, The Media, and the Women Who Changed How America Eats. 

It's about my grandmother and Julia Child and me and cake.

It is also finished.

I am proud, but mostly relieved.

If you want to know more about it, shoot me an email.

I'll tell you more later.

I don't really know what's next.

I'm in a band and I want to write a million songs.

I want to bake some bread.

I want to sit in a garden while holding someone else's baby.

Wake up and go swimming.

All I really want to say, is how lucky I feel.

That there ain't words big enough, that if I'd known how much love there is--

that exists in this world-- for eating well, and eating together--that there is so much joy to be had--

if you'd have told me four years ago, I don't know if I'd have believed it.

I believe it now.

I feel so lucky.

Thank you.

xoxoxo

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